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						What is Polyamory? 
						  
						
						
						Polyamory is the practice of, or desire for, intimate 
						relationships
						
						
						where individuals may have more than one 
						partner, with the knowledge and consent of all partners. 
						It involves 
						
						maintaining multiple sexual and/or romantic 
						relationships simultaneously. 
						
						It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and 
						responsible non-monogamy."  
						
						  
						
						
						The term should not be 
						confused with polysexuality, which is an attraction towards multiple 
						genders or sexes.  Members of the polyamory 
						community refer to themselves by the shorthand term, 
						"poly." 
						  
						
						
						 
						  
						
										
						  
						  
						
						
						
						Wikipedia: Polyamory 
						
						
						
						Showtime Series: Polyamory 
						
										
						
						Video: Polyamory Q&A 
						
										
                                        
                                        Reasons To Try Dating A 
                                        Couple 
						
						
                        NBC: What Open 
                        Relationships Have to Offer 
						
						
                        Willow Smith: 
                        Explains Why She Prefers Polyamory Relationships 
						
						
                        
                        Meet a Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						
						
						Info: Monogamy 
						
						
										
						 
						The term "polyamorous" can refer to the nature of a 
						person's relationships at some point in time or to a 
						philosophy or relationship orientation (much like gender 
						or sexual orientation). The word is sometimes used in a 
						broader sense, as an umbrella term that covers various 
						forms of multiple relationships, or forms of sexual or 
						romantic relationships that are not sexually exclusive. 
						Polyamorous arrangements are varied, reflecting the 
						choices and philosophies of the individuals involved, 
						though there is disagreement on how broadly the concept 
						of polyamory applies. An emphasis on ethics, honesty, 
						and transparency all around is widely regarded as the 
						crucial defining characteristic. As of July 2009, it was 
						estimated that more than 500,000 polyamorous 
						relationships existed in the United States. 
						  
						
						
						Polyamorous people practice "abundant love," the belief 
						or philosophy that it is possible to love more than one 
						person at the same time. 
						
						People who identify as polyamorous typically reject the 
						view that sexual and relational exclusivity are 
						necessary for deep, committed, long-term loving 
						relationships. Those who are open to, or emotionally 
						suited for, polyamory may embark on a polyamorous 
						relationship when single or already in a monogamous or 
						open relationship. Sex is not necessarily a primary 
						focus in polyamorous relationships, which commonly 
						consist of people seeking to build long-term 
						relationships with more than one person on mutually 
						agreeable grounds, with sex as only one aspect of their 
						relationships. In practice, polyamorous relationships 
						are highly varied and individualized according to those 
						participating. For many, such relationships are ideally 
						built upon values of trust, loyalty, and the negotiation 
						of boundaries, as well as overcoming jealousy, 
						possessiveness, and the rejection of restrictive 
						cultural standards. 
						
						  
						
						  
						
						
						   
						
						
						
						Polyamory and Triads: Finding a Third 
						
						
						
                        Video Interview: Answering Your Questions About 
                        Polyamory (1) 
						
						
						
						More Than Two: Learning the Poly Lingo 
						
						
                        
                        Interview: Perfect Polyamorous Relationship 
						
						
						
						Video Discussion: What About Polyamory? 
						
						
                        Willow Smith 
                        Opens Up About Being Polyamorous 
						
						
						
						Huffington Post: Spark Chaser or Long Burner 
						
						
						
						Three Way Relationship: Beautiful Thing 
						  
						
                          
						  
						
						
						Polyamory 
                        Explained 
						  
						
						
						According to the Polyamory Society, Polyamory is defined 
						as, "the non-possessive, honest, responsible and ethical 
						philosophy and practice of loving multiple people 
						simultaneously." Polyamory emphasizes consciously 
						choosing how many partners one wishes to be involved 
						with rather than accepting social norms which dictate 
						loving only one person at a time. Polyamory is an 
						umbrella term which integrates traditional multi-partner 
						relationship terms with more evolved egalitarian terms. 
						Polyamory embraces sexual equality and all sexual 
						orientations towards an expanded circle of spousal 
						intimacy and love. Polyamory is from the root words "poly" 
						meaning many and "amour" meaning love hence "many loves" 
						or "polyamory." Of course, love itself is a rather 
						ambiguous term, but most polyamorous people seem to define it as a 
						serious, intimate, romantic, or less stable, 
						affectionate bond which a person has with another person 
						or group of persons. This bond usually, though not 
						necessarily always, involves sex.   
						
						  
						
						
						Sexualove or eromance 
						are other words which have been coined to describe this 
						kind of love. "Responsible, ethical or intentional 
						non-monogamy" is another popular description used to 
						explain polyamory. 
                        
                        Creative terms used in the poly community include 
                        throuple, threelationship, or polycule. 
						
						  
						
						 
						    
						  
						
						  
						
						
						
						BBC: Polyamorous Relationships May Be the Future of Love 
						
						
						
						Interview with Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						
                        Research: Health and 
                        Wellness of Consensual Non-Monogamy 
						
						
						
						
						Video: How to Have an Open Relationship 
						
						
                        
                        Meet the Married Polyamorous Throuple 
						
						
                        
                        Questions People In Polyamorous Relationships Are Sick 
                        Of Hearing 
                        
						
						
						
						
						Exploring Modern
						
						Polyamory 
						
						
						
						Types of Polyamory 
						
						  
						
					
						
						Poly Definitions 
						
						  
						
						
						Polyamory (Poly) -  
					
                        Umbrella term for various forms of 
                        non-monogamous, multi-partner relationships, or 
                        non-exclusive sexual or romantic relationships. 
						
						Intimate 
                        relationships with more than one partner, with the 
                        informed consent of all partners involved. It is 
                        described as consensual, ethical, and responsible 
                        non-monogamy. People who identify as polyamorous believe 
                        in an open relationship with a conscious management of 
                        jealousy. They reject the view that sexual and 
                        relational exclusivity are necessary for deep, 
                        committed, long-term loving relationships. 
                          
						
						
                        Polyfidelity (Polyfi) - Form of non-monogamy, an 
                        intimate relationship structure where all members are 
                        considered equal partners and agree to restrict sexual 
                        activity to only other members of the group. 
                        Polyfidelity describes the ethical behavior or 
                        faithfulness of a polyamorous relationship. 
						
						  
						
						
                        Metamour - In a polyamorous relationship, a metamour is 
                        your partner's other partner. A metamour is someone who 
                        is your partner's partner, but with whom you have no 
                        romantic relationship. This can be your partner's other 
                        boyfriend or girlfriend or your partner's spouse. Your 
                        partner's other partners, that you are not romantically 
                        or sexually involved with. My girl/boyfriend's other 
                        boy/girlfriends. A partner has several other partners. 
                        Each partner of a partner is a metamour. 
						
						  
						
						 
                          
						
						  
						
						
                        
                        Reasons To Try Dating A Couple 
						
						
                        
                        Meet the Married Polyamorous Throuple 
                        
                        
                        NY Judge Rules Polyamorous Relationships Deserve Legal 
                        Protection 
                        
                        
						
						More Than Two: 
						Polyamory FAQ 
						
						
						
						Huff Post: Inside Look at Open Relationships 
						
						
						
						
						Video: Signs Polyamory is Right for You 
						
						
                        Research: Health and 
                        Wellness of Consensual Non-Monogamy 
						
						
                        
                        I Went To A Nudist Swingers Resort Without My 
                        Girlfriend: Here's What Happened 
                         
                        NM - Non-monogamy. Non-mongogamous melationship. 
                         
                        Throuple (Thrupple) - Most popular term used to describe 
                        an intimate relationship consisting of more than a 
                        couple (more than two partners). A throuple is three or 
                        more members who are romantically involved with each 
                        other.  
						
						  
						
						
                        Polycule - Connected network of people in non-monogamous 
                        relationships. The term apparently likens such a network 
                        to a model of a chemical molecule, which uses lines, 
                        circular shapes, or symbols to indicate bonds between 
                        atoms. 
						
						  
						
						
						
						Constellation - Arrangement of members of 
						a polyamorous relationship: 
						
						
						tribe, triad,  
						
						
						thrupple, throuple, troika, 
						
						
						delta, quad, vee. 
						
						  
						
						
                        Unicorn 
                        - Sexually adventurous single bisexual female who  lives 
						with and dates a male/female couple. Slang for a woman who joins a heterosexual 
						couple for a threesome. 
                        
                         
  
						
						
						 
						 
						  
						
						
						  
						
						
						
						FAQ: Love More 
						
						
                        
                        Reasons To Try Dating A Couple 
						
						
						
						Huff Post: Inside Look at Open Relationships 
						
						
                        
                        Bustle: Poly Terms You Should Know 
                        
                        More Than Two: Poly Glossary 
						
						
                        
                        Willow Smith Reveals That She is Polyamorous 
						
						
						
						CNN: When Three Isn't a Crowd 
						
						
						
						The Atlantic: Multiple Lovers Without Jealousy 
						
						
						
						
						Video: Signs Polyamory is Right for You 
						
						  
						
						  
						  
						
						
						Poly Books 
						
						
						  
						
						
						--Ethical Slut: Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open 
						Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton 
						
						
						--More Than Two: Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory by 
						Franklin Veaux 
						
						
						--Opening Up: Guide to Creating & Sustaining Open 
						Relationships by Tristan Taormino 
						  
						
						
						Poly 
                        Films 
						
						
						  
						
						
						--Monogamish 
                        (Documentary Film, 2014) 
						
						
						Director: Tao Ruspoli. Writers: Tao Ruspoli, Mark 
						Wrathall. Stars: Stephanie Coontz, Tao Ruspoli, 
						Christopher Ryan. 
						
						  
						
						
						IMDB: 
						Monogamish 
						
						
						
						Monogamish: The Film 
						
						  
						
						
						--The Unicorn (Independent Film, 2018) 
						
						
						Director: Robert 
						Schwartzman. Writers: Will Elliott, Kirk C. 
						Johnson. Stars: Lauren Lapkus, Nicholas Rutherford, Lucy 
						Hale.  
						
						  
						
						
						IMDB: 
						The Unicorn 
						
						
						
						The Unicorn: The Film  
						
						  
						
                         
                         
                          
						  
						
						
						
						
						More Than Two: Polyamory Myths 
						
						
						
						If You're Thinking About an Open Marriage, Consider This 
						First 
						
						
                        
                        Interview: Perfect Polyamorous Relationship 
						
						
                        NBC: What Open 
                        Relationships Have to Offer 
						
						
						
						Types of Polyamory 
						
						
						
						
						TED Talk: Rethinking Infidelity 
						
						
                        Willow Smith: 
                        Explains Why She Prefers Polyamory Relationships 
						
                        
                        
                        I Went To A Nudist Swingers Resort Without My 
                        Girlfriend: Here's What Happened 
						  
						
						
						Poly 
						Arrangements 
						
						
						  
						
						
						
						Members of 
						a polyamorous relationship describe their arrangement as 
						a constellation.  That constellation may be more 
						specifically defined as a triad, delta, quad, vee, or 
						simply the letter "N."  You might also hear the 
						terms thrupple, trouple or troika.  When describing a 
						polyamorous network, terms like tribe, molecule, or 
						polycule are used. 
						
						  
						
						
						Typically, 
						an existing couple
						seeks out a "third" to join their relationship.
						
						This third 
						member, usually a woman, is sometimes called an HBB (hot 
						bi babe). Often referred to as a "unicorn," such a woman 
						would love both the man and woman in a pre-existing dyad 
						equally and would be sexual with both of them. 
						
						  
						
						
                        However, 
                        there is a great deal of variety in polyamorous 
                        relationships. A polycule might include three or even 
                        four (or more) partners.  A polycule might consist 
                        entirely of men (gay) or entirely of women (lesbian). It 
                        might be a mix of gay, lesbian, and bisexual members or 
                        a mix of cisgender and queergender members. 
						
						  
						
						 
                           
						
						  
						
						
                        
                        Willow Smith Reveals That She is Polyamorous 
						
						
						
						
						CNN: When Three Isn't 
                        a Crowd 
						
						
						
						Glossary of Polyamory Terms 
						
										
						
						Video Chat: Should You Be Polyamorous? 
						
						
						
						15 Honest Reasons Couples Choose to be Polyamorous 
						
                        
						
                        Meet a Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						
						
						I Am in a Polyamorous Relationship 
						
						
						
						Interview with Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						
						
						 
						
						
						  
						
						  
						
						
						
						Unicorn 
						 
						
						
						Being someone's unicorn 
						means you are someone's fantasy. The unicorn is 
						described as unattainable and perfect.  
						
						
						  
						
						
						In the polyamory world, a 
						unicorn is a young, single, sane, sexually adventurous, 
						healthy bisexual female who wants desperately to live 
						with and love a male/female couple. A unicorn, 
						therefore, is slang for a woman who joins a heterosexual 
						couple for a threesome.  
						
						  
						
						
						Typically, 
						the term "unicorn" is used to describe a bisexual person 
						(usually though not always female) who is willing to 
						join an existing couple, often with the presumption that 
						this person will date and become sexually involved with 
						both members of that couple. The unicorn will be the 
						girlfriend to the couple. The couple is usually 
						considered a primary relationship, while the girlfriend 
						will be a secondary partner to both.  
						
						  
						
						
						There is humor in the 
						term because it can be difficult to find such an elusive 
						third member. They are like a mythical creature that 
						doesn't exist. The idea is that there are 
						disproportionately more unicorn hunters than unicorns 
						themselves. 
						
						  
						
						
                        
                        Why Can't We Find a Third? 
						
						
                        Confessions of 
                        a Real Life Unicorn 
						
						
						
						
						Unicorn Hunting 
						
						
                        
                        Perfect Polyamorous Thruple 
						
						
                        
                        I am a Unicorn in a Three-Person Relationship 
						
						  
						
						 
                         
                           
						  
						
						
						Polyfidelity 
						
						
						  
						
						
						A polyamorous relationship isn’t about sex.  It’s about 
						building a romantic relationship with more than one 
						person at a time.  Some poly relationships, called 
						“polyfidelity” relationships, have rules not much 
						different from a traditional monogamous relationship, 
						only there are more than two people involved. A polyfidelitous triad 
						(or constellation), for example, may have three people 
						involved, with one person sexually active with the other 
						two, or even with all three people sexually involved 
						with one another. However, nobody in the relationship 
						may take an “outside” lover, just as neither partner in 
						a monogamous relationship is allowed to have an outside 
						lover.  If you do, that is considered cheating. Cheating, if anything, 
						is a more serious offense in a polyfidelity relationship 
						than in a monogamous relationship, because if you cheat, 
						you are betraying more than one person’s trust. 
						  
						
						 
						 
						  
						 
						Other polyamorous relationships may permit the people 
						involved to have “outside” lovers under certain 
						circumstances, often, for example, only if the outside 
						lover is approved beforehand by everyone involved, and 
						only if the outside lover knows the nature of the 
						relationship. 
						 
						The individual relationships within a polyamorous group 
						may be very complex, as well. In many cases, there may 
						be one “primary” couple (a husband and wife, for example). 
						Either or both of those people may have outside lovers, 
						but those relationships are “secondary” in the sense 
						that they involve less involvement in the partners’ 
						day-to-day lives than, say, a marriage does. 
						
						  
						
						
						[Source: More Than Two] 
						
						
						  
						
						
                        Research: Health and 
                        Wellness of Consensual Non-Monogamy 
						
						
						
						
						Exploring Modern Polyamory 
						
						
						
						Polyamory and Triads: Finding a Third 
						
						
                        Willow Smith 
                        Opens Up About Being Polyamorous 
						
						
						
						Info: Monogamy 
						
						
                        
                        Interview: Perfect Polyamorous Relationship 
						
						
						
						Unicorns Rule 
						
						
						
						Types of Polyamory 
						
						
						
                        Video Interview: Answering Your Questions About 
                        Polyamory (2) 
						
                        
                        
                        I Went To A Nudist Swingers Resort Without My 
                        Girlfriend: Here's What Happened 
						  
						
						 
                          
						
						  
					
						
						Glossary of Polyamory Terms 
						
						
                        NBC: What Open 
                        Relationships Have to Offer 
						
						
						
						I Am in a Polyamorous Relationship 
						
						
						
						
						8 Signs Polyamory is Right for You 
						
						
						
						Psychology Today: 7 Forms of Non-Monogamy 
						
						
                        Willow Smith: 
                        Explains Why She Prefers Polyamory Relationships 
						
						
                        
                        Bustle: Poly Terms You Should Know 
                        
                        More Than Two: Poly Glossary 
						
						
						
						
						Video: Should You Be Polyamorous? 
						
						
						
						Polyamory Society 
						
						
						
						
						More Than Two: Polyamory Myths 
						
						
						
						15 Honest Reasons Couples Choose to be Polyamorous 
						
						  
						
						
						
						Menage a Trois 
						  
						
						
						Literally 
						translated from French, "menage a trois" means 
						'house of 
						three.' It is sexual activity involving three people.  
						It is a romantic threesome, triad, throuple, or thrupple.  It is a relationship in which all three 
						people involved live together. It is a relationship composed of 
						three people. It is a union or group of three. It is a relationship in 
						which each of the three people is sexually and 
						emotionally involved with all the other members. 
						
						  
						
						 
                          
						
						  
						
						
						
						Wikipedia: Polyamory 
						
						
						
						Showtime Series: Polyamory 
						
						
                        
                        Meet a Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						
						
						
						Unicorn Hunting 
						
						
                        
                        Meet the Married Polyamorous Throuple 
						
						
                        
                        Questions People In Polyamorous Relationships Are Sick 
                        Of Hearing 
						
						
                        
                        Reasons To Try Dating A Couple 
						
						
                        
                        Willow Smith Reveals That She is Polyamorous 
						
						
						
						Interview with Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						  
						
						
						Swinging, Free Love, Cheating, or Polygamy? 
						
						
						  
						
						
						So polyamory is like swinging?  Not exactly. Swinging 
						has a different focus. Swingers focus on recreational 
						sex, though friendships and deeper bonds may develop. 
						With polyamory, deep relationships are the focus, though 
						the sex is often fun. 
						 
						So, you have another partner on the side?  No. That is 
						something different as well. The technical term for that 
						is “cheating.” 
						The thing that defines a polyamorous relationship is 
						that everyone involved knows about, and agrees to, 
						everyone else’s involvement. 
						  
						
						 
						 
						
						
						  
						  
						
						
						
						What's the Difference: Polyamory and Polygamy 
						
						
						
						Polygamy, Polyamory, Polygyny, Polyandry, and More 
						
						
						
						
						Video Chat: Polyamory Questions and Answers 
						
						
						
						More Than Two: Learning the Poly Lingo 
						
						
                        
                        Questions People In Polyamorous Relationships Are Sick 
                        Of Hearing 
						
						
                        
                        Willow Smith Reveals That She is Polyamorous 
						
						
                        
                        Interview: Perfect Polyamorous Relationship 
						
						
						
						
						Jessica O'Reilly TED Talk: Monogamish and New Rules of 
						Marriage 
						
						
						
						Three Way Relationship: Beautiful Thing 
						
						
                        
                        I Went To A Nudist Swingers Resort Without My 
                        Girlfriend: Here's What Happened 
						
						
						 
						If you are married, and you have a girlfriend that your 
						wife doesn’t know about, or that your wife suspects but 
						isn’t sure about, or that your wife knows about but 
						isn’t happy with, you’re not poly, you’re cheating. 
						Similarly, if you’re banging the milkman while your 
						husband is out of town, you’re not poly, you’re 
						cheating. 
						 
						Polyamory is defined by informed consent of all the 
						participants. Without it, it ain’t poly. If you can’t 
						invite your lover over to Thanksgiving dinner with the 
						rest of your family because you don’t want anyone to 
						know what you’re doing, it probably ain’t poly. 
  
						
						
						
						Didn’t this whole “free love” thing die out in the 
						’60s?  Many folks remember that movie about free love, 
						"Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice."  In truth, "free love" 
						never really existed, even back then.  But that’s 
						irrelevant. Polyamory isn’t free love. All these 
						different flavors of polyamory have their own dynamic, 
						but ultimately, they are all about building 
						relationships, not about sex. 
						 
						
						
						Okay, so they are about sex as well. After all, most 
						romantic relationships do involve sex, and poly is about 
						romantic relationships. (Not for everybody, of course. 
						There are folks who have romantic relationships without 
						sex. But often, for many of us, romance does include 
						some element of sex.) But the point is, it isn’t just 
						the sex.  And the idea of polyamory predates the ’60s, 
						anyway. In fact, it’s at least as old as human history. 
						Examples of non-monogamous relationships can be found in 
						many places at any time throughout history. 
						  
						
						
						
						 
						
						   
						  
						  
					
						
						Glossary of Polyamory Terms 
						
						
                        NBC: What Open 
                        Relationships Have to Offer 
						
						
						
						I Am in a Polyamorous Relationship 
						
						
						
						
						8 Signs Polyamory is Right for You 
						
						
						
						Psychology Today: 7 Forms of Non-Monogamy 
						
						
                        Willow Smith: 
                        Explains Why She Prefers Polyamory Relationships 
						
						
                        
                        Bustle: Poly Terms You Should Know 
                        
                        More Than Two: Poly Glossary 
						
						
						 
						Isn’t this all some sexist, misogynistic, male-dominated 
						Fundamentalist Mormon thing?  No. The image that many 
						people have in their heads, of one man with many women 
						(as in the HBO series, "Big Love") is technically “polygyny.” 
						Polygyny (from the Greek poly meaning many 
						+ gynos meaning woman) is the form of 
						polygamy where a man can have more than one female 
						partner, but women are not allowed to have more than one 
						male partner. 
						 
						In societies where polygyny is practiced, women are 
						usually seen as little more than property. Since people 
						have this mistaken notion of polyamory, it’s easy to 
						understand why they think “polyamory” means “disrespect 
						of women.” 
						 
						But polyamory is not polygyny. Polyamory applies equally 
						to everybody. In an ethical polyamorous relationship, 
						the same opportunities are afforded to everyone, 
						regardless of their sex. Polyamory is not about 
						collecting a bunch of women for your harem. Polyamory is 
						about sharing some part of your life and sharing your 
						love with more than one other person, and your lovers 
						sharing some part of THEIR lives and some part of THEIR 
						love with more than one other person. 
						  
						
						
						[Source: More Than Two] 
						
						  
						
						  
						
						  
						
						
						
						Poly Coach: Non-Monogamy and Open Relationships 
						
						
                        Willow Smith 
                        Opens Up About Being Polyamorous 
						
						
						
						Video Discussion: What About Polyamory? 
						
						
						More Than Two: 
						Polyamory FAQ 
						
						
                        
                        Meet a Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						
						
						Info: Monogamy 
						
						
						
						Lisa Ling: Spotlight on Young Polygamist Family 
						  
						
						
						Polyamory vs. Polygamy 
						
						
						  
						
						
						Do you think there is no difference between polyamory and 
						polygamy? Think again and discover the difference. 
						 
						In the world of relationships, the terms polyamory and 
						polygamy may sound similar, but in actual fact there are 
						several key differences between the two that people need 
						to be aware of. What follows are some of the main ones 
						and the hope is that by the end of it you will have a 
						far better understanding about not only the terms, but 
						also the lifestyles associated with the terms. Hopefully 
						by the end of it you will see that. 
						 
						First, the term polygamy basically means "many 
						marriages" but it can also relate to having a number of 
						relationships where there is a sense of having some kind 
						of spousal commitment to a number of people at the one 
						time. 
						
						
						
						 
						  
						  
						
						
						
						Wikipedia: Polyamory 
						
						
                        
                        Meet a Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						
                        
                        Reasons To Try Dating A Couple 
						
						
						
						Showtime Series: Polyamory 
						
						
						
						Interview with Polyamorous Thrupple 
						
						
                        Research: Health and 
                        Wellness of Consensual Non-Monogamy 
						
						
						
						Types of Polyamory 
						
						
                        What Open 
                        Relationships Have to Offer 
						
						
                        
                        Questions People In Polyamorous Relationships Are Sick 
                        Of Hearing 
						
						
						
						Three Way Relationship: Beautiful Thing 
						
						
                        
                        Willow Smith Reveals That She is Polyamorous 
						
						
						Glossary of Polyamory Terms 
						
						
						
						I Am in a Polyamorous Relationship 
						
						
						
						Info: Monogamy 
						
						  
						
						
						
						This is a term that is perhaps used most when people are 
						talking about the Mormon faith or Islam where a man is 
						able to have a number of wives at any given time and it 
						is this aspect of a number of marriages that makes it 
						different to polyamory. In both of these religions there 
						will, therefore, be religious doctrine that discusses it 
						in detail whereas with polyamory this is certainly not 
						the case. 
						
						  
						
						
						
						The term polyamory instead means "many loves" and the 
						relationship aspect in this type of lifestyle does not 
						mean that marriage exists, but instead the person has 
						some form of a serious relationship with a number of 
						people at the one time. This can, therefore, mean that 
						they may date one person while living with another, but 
						there is no sense of any formal certificates or 
						paperwork that show they are in some kind of a serious 
						relationship with anybody. It is also worth pointing out 
						that while polygamy is often linked to religion, the 
						same cannot be said about polyamory. 
                         
                         
                         
                          
						 
						  
						
						
						
						What's the Difference: Polyamory and Polygamy 
						
						
						
						Polygamy, Polyamory, Polygyny, Polyandry, and More 
						
						
						
						
						Video Chat: Polyamory Questions and Answers 
						
						
						
						More Than Two: Learning the Poly Lingo 
						
						
                        
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						Another difference between the two is that polygamy does 
						tend to only refer to the act of a man having more than 
						one wife and it is, therefore, based on gender. 
						Polyamory is open to any mixture of numbers and genders 
						so it is just as common for a man to be in a 
						relationship with several women as it is for a woman to 
						be in love with several men. It should also be pointed 
						out that polyamory can of course involve people of the 
						same sex as well whereas this won't be possible with 
						polygamy due to its strong links to religion and 
						culture. 
						
						
						
						 
						It is also generally true that polygamy has a tendency 
						to last longer like normal marriages, but with polyamory 
						it is more about the moment and living in it and this 
						means it may last for weeks, months or even years 
						depending on the people involved which is similar to 
						swinger couples or open relationships. The term "till 
						death do us part" certainly only applies to one and over 
						a lifetime the person involved in a polyamorous 
						relationship can have a number of partners whereas the 
						polygamist tends to be limited to only a few. 
						
						
						
						 
						
						
						
						  
						
                         
                          
						  
						
						
						
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                        Explains Why She Prefers Polyamory Relationships 
						
						
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						Finally, it has to be said that people do tend to have 
						the point of view that there are cultural differences 
						between the two, but in actual fact this is not actually 
						the case. However, how both approaches are viewed can be 
						different. It is perhaps true that in certain cultures 
						and countries the idea of having more than one wife 
						would not cause a stir and indeed it is common practice, 
						but the idea of having more than one relationship is one 
						that may indeed be frowned upon. There is also the idea 
						that even in countries or cultures where polygamy is not 
						allowed that there is a better understanding of it 
						whereas the same cannot be said about multiple 
						relationships at the one time. 
						 
						So those are the key differences between polyamory and 
						polygamy and you should know see that they are not as 
						similar as you may have initially thought and indeed 
						those that practice either of them would certainly agree 
						that they have entirely different approaches to life. 
						However, it is fair to say that a number of people will 
						still have the same negative opinion about both 
						lifestyles, but due to now having a better understanding 
						of the two maybe you will be able to accept why some 
						people do indeed wish to live this type of lifestyle. 
						
						  
						
						
						[Source: Your Tango] 
						
						  
						
						
						
						
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						What is
						Hotwifing? 
						
						  
						
						
						Hotwifing is the modern fetish term for wife-sharing. A hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relationships 
						outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge and 
						consent of her husband, who himself doesn’t have 
						affairs. Wife-sharing arrangement or act of carrying out 
						such affairs. The idea of hotwifing comes from the 
						concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot 
						wife.” The non-monogamous arrangement is related to a 
						cuckolding fetish, and many (but not all) husbands in 
						such a relationship refer to themselves as cuckolds or 
						hot-wifers. 
						
						  
						
						
						The difference between hotwifing and cheating is consent.  
						In a hotwife arrangement, the husband is fully aware and 
						supportive of his wife’s affairs. In many cases, one 
						spouse or the other even gains sexual arousal from the 
						arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing 
						something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy 
						fetish.  Hotwifing isn’t exactly swinging because 
						only one partner is having extramarital sex. One of the 
						most important aspects though is that both partners are 
						open and trusting with each other. It only works if both 
						partners are mutually onboard. 
						
						  
						
						
						
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						What is an 
						Orgy? 
						
						
						  
						
						
						
						Originally, an orgy was a secret ceremonial rite held in 
						honor of an ancient Greek (Dionysus) or Roman (Bacchus) 
						deity and usually characterized by ecstatic singing and 
						dancing.  In general, it can be defined as drunken 
						revelry or a sexual encounter involving many people or 
						excessive sexual indulgence.  
						
						  
						
						
						In modern 
						usage, an orgy is a sex party where guests freely engage 
						in open and unrestrained sexual activity or group sex.
						 
						 
						Swingers' parties do not always conform to this 
						designation, because at many swinger parties the sexual 
						partners may all know each other or at least have some 
						commonality among economic class, educational attainment 
						or other shared attributes. Some swingers contend that 
						an orgy, as opposed to a sex party, requires some 
						anonymity of sexual partners in complete sexual abandon. 
						Other kinds of "sex parties" may fare less well with 
						this labeling.  
						 
						Participation in an "orgy" is a common sexual fantasy, 
						and group sex targeting such consumers is a subgenre in 
						pornographic films. Similar activities include group 
						sex, harems, gang bangs, bukkake, bacchanalia, and bdsm. 
						
						  
						
						 
						 
						  
						
						
						Wikipedia: 
						Orgy 
						
						
						
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						Sex Party? 
						
						
						
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						Wikipedia: Gang Bang 
						
						  
						
						
						A gang bang is a situation in which several people 
						engage in physical sexual activity with one specific 
						individual sequentially or at the same time. That 
						specific individual is the central focus of the sexual 
						activity. For example, it could be one woman surrounded 
						by several men or a man with multiple women. Rather than 
						serial couplings by two people, the gang bang is defined 
						by the number and simultaneity of the various sex acts, 
						such as vaginal, anal or oral sex or double penetration 
						or triple penetration. 
						
						  
						
						
						The largest gang bangs are sponsored by pornographic 
						film companies, and recorded, but a gang bang is not 
						unusual in the swinger community. It is more often 
						considered to have multiple men and one woman, while a 
						so-called "reverse gang bang" (one man and many women), 
						which can be seen in pornography. Male-on-male and 
						female-on-female gang bangs also happen. Gang bangs are 
						not defined by the precise number of participants, but 
						usually involve more than three people and may involve a 
						dozen or more.  
						 
						By contrast, three people engaged in sex is normally 
						referred to as a threesome, and four people are normally 
						referred to as a foursome. Gang bangs also differ from 
						group sex, such as threesomes and foursomes, in that 
						most (if not all) sexual acts during a gang bang are 
						centered on or performed with just the central person. 
						
						  
						
						
						
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