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"I take a position similar to a position that Martin Luther King, Jr. took many, many years ago, that races don't fall in love and get married. Individuals fall in love and get married. So if two men or two women fall in love and want to get married, they should be able to do just that. No government, state or federal, should tell people who they can fall in love with and get married or not."
-John Lewis / Congressman

 



"We shouldn't just allow gay marriage. We should insist on gay marriage. We should regard it as scandalous that two people could claim to love each other and not want to sanctify their love with marriage and fidelity."
-David Brooks / New York Times

"It's insane that civil rights are being denied people in this day and age. It's embarrassing and it's heartbreaking. It goes without saying that I am completely in support of gay marriage. In ten years we'll be ashamed that was ever an issue."
-Chris Evans / Captain America

 

"Marriage should be between a spouse and a spouse, not a gender and a gender."
-Hendrik Hertzberg

 

Marriage Proposals That Will Warm Your Heart
20 Year Anniversary of World's First Same-Sex Marriage

CNN: Support for Same Sex Marriage Reaches Record High

Metro Weekly: Most Republicans Now Support Same-Sex Marriage

NPR: Five Year Anniversary of Marriage Equality in the US

Timeline: Legalization of Marriage Equality in the US

Supreme Court Declares: Same Sex Marriage Now Legal in All 50 States

Why Opinion Changed so Quickly on Gay Marriage

Rolling Stone: Now That We Have Marriage Equality

Why Opinion Changed so Quickly on Gay Marriage

NY Times: Challenges That Remain for LGBTQ Community

Chasten Buttigieg: Marriage Makes Me Want to Be a Better Person
Cuba Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage in Historic Referendum

First Same-Sex Couples Wed in Chile
Marriage Equality Story: More Complicated and Costly Than You Remember
Swiss Voters Approve Same-Sex Marriage In Nationwide Referendum

 

 

Respect for Marriage Act is Now Federal Law

"Love is love. Right is right. Justice is justice."

-President Joe Biden

 

President Joe Biden signed the Respect for Marriage Act into law December 2022, assuring that marriage equality for same-sex and interracial couples will remain the law of the land no matter what the US Supreme Court does.

"Today's a good day," Biden said as he stepped before the audience outside the White House. He recalled when he first came out for marriage equality 10 years ago, when he was vice president. "I want to thank all of you for being here today," he told those in attendance, citing Vice President Kamala Harris, First Lady Jill Biden, Second Gentleman Doug Emhoff, and Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg.

He praised the legislators who worked for the legislation, including Sens. Tammy Baldwin, Susan Collins, Chuck Schumer, Dianne Feinstein, and others, and out US Reps. David Cicilline and Sharice Davids as well as allies like US Rep. Jerrold Nadler and especially outgoing House Speaker Nancy Pelosi.

 


 

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He said he was thinking of Richard and Mildred Loving, whose case won the right to interracial marriage in all states at the Supreme Court in 1967. He also noted all the couples and individuals who fought for the right to same-sex marriage, such as the late Edie Windsor, who fought the Defense of Marriage Act, which denied federal recognition to her marriage to Thea Spyer. "Today we celebrate our progress," he said.  "Love is love. Right is right. Justice is justice," he added.

He condemned anti-LGBTQ legislation that is being introduced and passed in states around the nation and Justice Clarence Thomas's stated desire for the Supreme Court to reverse its marriage equality ruling. He noted that racism, homophobia, transphobia, and anti-Semitism are all connected. He went on to celebrate the fact that out WNBA superstar Brittney Griner has been freed from a Russian prison and said he got to know her wife, Cherelle Griner, while working for Brittney's release. Then he signed the bill into law to cheers throughout the audience. As he stepped up from the desk he signed the legislation on, Lady Gaga's "Born This Way" played.

Vice President Harris spoke before Biden. "This is a victory," she said, adding, “The Dobbs decision reminds us that fundamental rights are interconnected, including the right to marry who you love, the right to access contraception and the right to make decisions about your own body,” referring to the recent Supreme Court ruling that overturned abortion rights. She reminded the audience that fundamental rights are interconnected, including the right to marry and the right to control one's reproductive life. And she quoted Harvey Milk: "Rights are won only by those who make their voices heard." She also praised Biden for elevating LGBTQ people throughout his administration.

[Source: Trudy Ring, Advocate, Dec 2022]

 

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US Senate and US House of Reps Passes Bill to Protect Same Sex Marriage

Love is Love: Photos From Same-Sex Weddings

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Marriage Proposals That Will Warm Your Heart

Love Wins: The Faces of Marriage Equality

Advocate: Are Queer People Making Marriage Better?

Gail and Audrey: Unexpected Love Story

 

 

Respect for Marriage Act Approved by House and Senate

Codifying federal protections for same-sex and inter-racial marriage

 

US Senate - Passed Respect for Marriage Act in Nov 2022 (61-36)
US House of Rep - Passed Respect for Marriage Act in Dec 2022 (258-169)

The Respect for Marriage Act passed the Democratic-led House in a 258-169 vote, as 39 Republicans joined all Democrats in supporting it. It also won bipartisan support in the Democratic-controlled Senate in late November: 12 GOP senators crossed party lines to vote for the legislation.

The Respect for Marriage Act formally repeals the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, which was signed into law by then-President Bill Clinton. That bill denied same-sex couples federal benefits and permitted states to refuse to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states.

The Supreme Court would later go on to invalidate the key provisions of DOMA in two watershed rulings, United States v. Windsor (2013) and Obergefell v. Hodges (2015).

 

 

CNN: US House of Reps Passes Bill to Protect Same Sex Marriage
NBC: Respect for Marriage Bill Passed by US House of Reps
NPR: What Does the Respect for Marriage Act Do?
CBS: US House Sends Respect for Marriage Bill to Biden

 

US House of Reps Vote to Approve Bill

 

The House voted to pass legislation Dec 2022 to protect same-sex and interracial marriage, the last step before the measure goes to President Joe Biden for his signature and becomes law.

The House vote was 258 to 169 with 39 Republicans joining the Democrats voting in favor. Loud applause broke out in the chamber when the vote was gaveled to a close.

While the bill would not set a national requirement that all states must legalize same-sex marriage, it would require individual states to recognize another state’s legal marriage.

The push for a vote on federal legislation protecting same-sex marriage rapidly gained momentum after the Supreme Court in June overturned its landmark Roe v. Wade decision.

The bill, called the Respect for Marriage Act, passed the Senate with a vote of 61 to 36. The bill was supported by all members of the Senate Democratic caucus and 12 Republicans.

In the event the Supreme Court might overturn its 2015 Obergefell v. Hodges decision that legalized same-sex marriage, a state could still pass a law to ban same-sex marriage, but that state would also be required to recognize a same-sex marriage from another state

 

CNN: US House of Reps Passes Bill to Protect Same Sex Marriage
NBC: Respect for Marriage Bill Passed by US House of Reps
NPR: What Does the Respect for Marriage Act Do?
CBS: US House Sends Respect for Marriage Bill to Biden

 

Remarks from President Joe Biden


Today, Congress took a critical step to ensure that Americans have the right to marry the person they love. The House’s bipartisan passage of the Respect for Marriage Act (by a significant margin) will give peace of mind to millions of LGBTQ and interracial couples who are now guaranteed the rights and protections to which they and their children are entitled.

After the uncertainty caused by the Supreme Court’s Dobbs decision, Congress has restored a measure of security to millions of marriages and families. They have also provided hope and dignity to millions of young people across this country who can grow up knowing that their government will recognize and respect the families they build.

I want to once again thank the unwavering champions of this legislation in Congress (Representatives Nadler, Cicilline, and Davids in the House, and Senators Baldwin, Collins, Portman, Sinema, Tillis, and Feinstein in the Senate) who refused to be deterred and brought this vital bill over the finish line. Together, we showed that it’s possible for Democrats and Republicans to come together to safeguard our most fundamental rights.

On this day, Jill and I are thinking of the courageous couples and fiercely committed advocates who have fought for decades to secure nationwide marriage equality at the Supreme Court and in Congress. While we are one step closer on our long journey to build a more perfect union, we must never stop fighting for full equality for LGBTQ Americans and all Americans.
 

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Paige and Holly: Morning of Our Wedding Day

US Senate and US House of Reps Passes Bill to Protect Same Sex Marriage

Chasten Buttigieg: Marriage Makes Me Want to Be a Better Person
Cuba Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage in Historic Referendum

First Same-Sex Couples Wed in Chile
The Story of Marriage Equality is More Complicated and Costly Than You Remember
Swiss Voters Approve Same-Sex Marriage In Nationwide Referendum

Marriage Proposals That Will Warm Your Heart

Greece Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage: First for Orthodox Christian Nation

Top Countries Most Supportive of Marriage Equality
Nepal Registers Its Historic First Same-Sex Marriage

 

 

2021 | Twenty Year Anniversary of Marriage Equality Worldwide

 

Twenty years ago, Dutch couple Gert Kasteel and Dolf Pasker made history when they tied the knot in the world’s first legally-recognized same-sex wedding in the Netherlands. They were among four gay couples (three male and one female) to be married shortly after midnight by the mayor of Amsterdam on April 1, 2001.

 

On April 1, 2021, they celebrated their 20th anniversaries in small groups or at home due to COVID-19 social distancing rules that prevented large gatherings. “It’s nicer to say to other people ‘he’s my husband, he’s my man,’” said Dolf, sitting next to Gert as they flipped through an album of photos and newspaper clippings of the wedding, which made headlines worldwide. “It has helped me to accept myself.” All four gay marriages have passed the test of time. One of the men, Frank Wittebrood, died of a heart attack in 2011 at 55.

 


Those who participated looked back with pride at having made legal history. “People told me that the Netherlands would be the first and the last country (to pass same-sex marriages), the rest of the world won’t follow you,” said Henk Krol, a lawmaker who supported the bill when it passed the Dutch parliament in 2000.

 

“Almost 30 countries in the world followed the Dutch example,” he said. Most European Union countries, Britain, the United States, Australia, Mexico and South Africa are among 29 nations to have legalized same-sex marriage since 2001. “I’m very proud that it’s possible,” said Gert, who before he could complete his sentence had Dolf jump in and finish it: “that we could play a little part of it. We made history.”
 

20 Year Anniversary of World's First Same-Sex Marriage

NPR: Five Year Anniversary of Marriage Equality in US

Jim Obergefell: We Still Don't Enjoy True Marriage Equality

Rolling Stone: Now That We Have Marriage Equality

Same-Sex Celebrity Couples Who Put a Ring on It

NY Times: Challenges That Remain for LGBTQ Community

Love is Love: Photos From Same-Sex Weddings

Finally Marrying My Partner of 28 Years

Richard Blanco: Until We Could

Black Love: Same Sex Couples' Quest for Marriage Equality

Same Sex Marriages Contribute $3.8 Billion to US Economy

Carolina and Erica: Wedding Proposal

 

2020 | Five Year Anniversary of Marriage Equality in the US

 

On the fifth anniversary (June 2020) of the historic US Supreme Court decision that legalized same-sex marriage across the country, LGBTQ activists marked the victory online.

On June 26, 2015 celebrations took place on the steps of the Supreme Court with lots of hugging and cheering. This year celebrations are more subdued and virtual because of the coronavirus pandemic. "We will be part of a larger celebration supporting Stonewall ... Called Stonewall Day," says Sarah Kate Ellis, president and CEO of GLAAD. That online event marks the start of protests in 1969 that launched the modern gay rights movement. Former President Barack Obama and Taylor Swift were among those who recorded congratulatory messages marking the occasion. The celebration comes after another big Supreme Court decision last week (2020). Justices ruled that it's illegal to fire someone because they're gay, lesbian or transgender.

 


 

BuzzFeed: Important LGBTQ Issues

Our Wedding Day: Paige and Holly

Top Countries Most Supportive of Marriage Equality

Overview: Where is Same-Sex Marriage Legal

Our Wedding Day: Paige and Holly
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Estonia Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage: Historic First for Central European Country


Around the country people are celebrating the 2015 marriage decision in their own ways. In Durham, NC, Barb Goldstein and Ann Willoughby looked through a scrapbook documenting their activism – including a photo of both on the front page of the local newspaper. Long-time partners Ann Willoughby, left, and Barb Goldstein, from Durham, North Carolina, leave the Durham County Register of Deeds office in downtown Durham on May 9, 2012, comforting each other after being denied a marriage license. "It was really a big deal, especially for Ann because she had never been open and finally she decided to just go for it," says Goldstein. Willoughby is 84 years old and says the marriage campaign helped her come out after decades in the closet. "The legality made me feel that, 'Hey, this is okay.' I'm a part of society. This is the way it should be – I don't need to hold back or pretend anymore," Willoughby says.

In Philadelphia, Larry Benjamin had already been with his husband for nearly two decades when the Supreme Court decision was announced. Still he says, "It was this big sigh of relief because that was it, where ever we went in the US we were going to be a married couple." "Being married is amazing. Being able to be with the person that you love is amazing," says Tori Wolfe-Sisson, who was active in marriage campaigns in the South.

 


 

20 Year Anniversary of World's First Same-Sex Marriage

NPR: Five Year Anniversary of Marriage Equality in US

Jim Obergefell: We Still Don't Enjoy True Marriage Equality

Rolling Stone: Now That We Have Marriage Equality

NY Times: Challenges That Remain for LGBTQ Community

Love is Love: Photos From Same-Sex Weddings

BuzzFeed: Important LGBTQ Issues

Same-Sex Celebrity Couples Who Put a Ring on It


Wolfe-Sisson says the Supreme Court decision has contributed to increasing acceptance of LGBTQ people. "It is shifting our culture in a way that is forcing people to accept – you have to because the law says it," Wolfe-Sisson says. But there's still criticism that the focus on marriage pushed aside campaigns to help LGBTQ people who face multiple forms of discrimination.

"An example is a black, transgender woman. She happens to be black and faces racial oppression in this country and transgender and faces oppression because of her gender identity," says Alphonso David, president of the Human Rights Campaign. Last fall after years of criticism David's group expanded its work for "transgender equality and justice" to address the violence and other harms trans people often face. This pivot to transgender issues has been matched by groups that fought against same-sex-marriage. Many of them are motivated by a conservative Christian theology that sees homosexuality and being transgender as unnatural.

 


 

Paige and Holly: Morning of Our Wedding Day

Same-Sex Wedding Photo Gallery

Top Countries Most Supportive of Marriage Equality

Marriage Equality Around the World
Same-Sex Celebrity Couples Who Put a Ring on It

Marriage Equality in Texas: Story of Two LGBTQ Families

Advocate: Tips for the Perfect LGBTQ Wedding

April and Tiffany: Wedding Highlights Video

NY Times: Gay Marriage Backers Win Supreme Court Victory

Same-Sex Wedding Photo Gallery


"The Supreme Court's Obergefell decision is just as unconstitutional today as it was the day the opinion was issued five years ago," says Abraham Hamilton III, general counsel with the American Family Association. Despite the defeat on the marriage decision, advocates for opposite-sex-only marriages remain optimistic.

"The LGBTQ movement has been promoting what are, essentially, lies about the nature of humanity – the nature of the human person – and I don't think that lies can prevail forever. I think that eventually the truth will triumph," says Peter Sprigg with the Family Research Council.

These groups now use the idea of religious freedom to argue in court that discrimination against LGBTQ people should be allowed in things like public accommodations and housing. It's a legal argument that courts are less and less friendly to, especially considering the Supreme Court's decision last week on banning employment discrimination. Discrimination based on religious freedom in housing is a special concern for older LGBTQ people. "Eighty-five percent of continuing [care] retirement communities in this country are run by faith-based organizations," says Michael Adams, CEO of SAGE. Not all of those organizations discriminate against LGBTQ people, but Adams sees the possibility as a risk.
 


 

Five years after the Supreme Court's same-sex marriage decision, SAGE is among the groups focused on a new fight. They want to pass legislation in Congress called the "Equality Act." It would prohibit LGBTQ discrimination in a wide variety of areas, including housing and healthcare. "That legislation really gets to the guts of what we need, in terms of legal protections in daily life," Adams says. The Democratically-controlled House of Representatives passed the legislation more than a year ago but it has stalled in the Republican-controlled Senate.

[Source: Jeff Brady, National Public Radio, June 2020]

 

20 Year Anniversary of World's First Same-Sex Marriage

NPR: Five Year Anniversary of Marriage Equality in US

Jim Obergefell: We Still Don't Enjoy True Marriage Equality

Rolling Stone: Now That We Have Marriage Equality

NY Times: Challenges That Remain for LGBTQ Community

Love is Love: Photos From Same-Sex Weddings

BuzzFeed: Important LGBTQ Issues

Same-Sex Celebrity Couples Who Put a Ring on It

Our Wedding Day: Paige and Holly

Marriage Proposals That Will Warm Your Heart

Same-Sex Wedding Photo Gallery

 

 

Jim Obergefell: Gay Marriage Activist
 

Jim Obergefell (born 1966) is a gay American civil rights activist known as the plaintiff in the Supreme Court case Obergefell v. Hodges, which legalized same-sex marriage in the United States. After his husband, John Arthur, died in 2013, and his inability to legally be considered Arthur's surviving spouse on his death certificate, Obergefell took to court, beginning his years of fighting for LGBTQ rights.

 

Mere months after their wedding, Obergefell's husband John was diagnosed with ALS. Upon meeting with a local civil rights attorney, they were told that due to Ohio's same-sex marriage ban, Obergefell could not be listed as Arthur's surviving spouse on his death certificate. They later filed a lawsuit, and the Ohio case became known as Obergefell v. Kasich.  A federal judge agreed to hear the case the following court day due to Arthur's illness. The judge ruled in Obergefell's favor, but the state of Ohio appealed to a higher court and won, resulting in Obergefell's appeal to the Supreme Court. Arthur died and soon, Obergefell devoted his time and became committed to legalizing same-sex marriage for all with the Supreme Court case Obergefell v. Hodges.

 

Biographical Notes: Jim Obergefell

Washington Post: Obergefell Became the Face of the Gay Marriage Court Case

NPR: Five Year Anniversary of Marriage Equality in the US

Jim Obergefell: We Still Don't Enjoy True Marriage Equality

 

 

Justice Anthony Kennedy, who wrote the majority opinion for the case, stated in the court: “No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than they once were.” After winning the case, Obergefell stated: “This affirms what millions across the country already know to be true in their hearts: our love is equal. The four words etched onto the front of the Supreme Court ‘equal justice under law’ apply to us, too.” President Barack Obama reached out to congratulate Obergefell and thanked him for “his leadership that has changed our country.”

 

After years of being together, Arthur was diagnosed with ALS. Obergefell acted as Arthur’s caretaker for the rest of their relationship. By 2013, Arthur became bed bound, and Obergefell and Arthur decided to get married. Same-sex marriage was illegal in their home state of Ohio, so in order to get married, they traveled to another state. After 22 years of being together, Arthur died in October 2013.

 

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Estonia Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage in Historic First for a Central European Country

Marriage Equality Around the World
Same-Sex Celebrity Couples Who Put a Ring on It

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Advocate: Tips for the Perfect LGBTQ Wedding

April and Tiffany: Wedding Highlights Video

NY Times: Gay Marriage Backers Win Supreme Court Victory

Same-Sex Wedding Photo Gallery

 

2015 | Marriage Equality

 

On June 26, 2015, the US Supreme Court announced its landmark decision, in the case of Obergefell vs Hodges, ruling in favor of nationwide marriage equality. In so doing, it officially declared that same-sex couples have a right to marry anywhere in the United States. This historic Supreme Court ruling, which brought great joy to the LGBTQ community, holds that same-sex couples can no longer be denied the freedom to marry guaranteed by the US Constitution, assuring that all loving and committed couples will be able to marry throughout the United States.

 



President Obama issued these remarks: "Today is a big step in our march toward equality. Gay and lesbian couples now have the right to marry, just like anyone else. The Supreme Court recognized that the Constitution guarantees marriage equality. In doing so, they have reaffirmed that all Americans are entitled to the equal protection of the law; that all people should be treated equally, regardless of who they are or who they love. This decision will end the patchwork system we currently have. It will end the uncertainty hundreds of thousands of same-sex couples face from not knowing whether they’re marriage, legitimate in the eyes of one state, will remain if they decide to move or even visit another. This ruling will strengthen all of our communities by offering to all loving same-sex couples the dignity of marriage across this great land. If we are truly created equal, then surely the love we commit to one another must be equal as well. It is gratifying to see that principle enshrined into law by this decision."

 

 

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Love is Love: Photos From Same-Sex Weddings

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Top Countries Most Supportive of Marriage Equality

My Love My Life: Somewhere Over the Rainbow

Wikipedia: Same-Sex Marriage in the United States

Our Wedding Day: Paige and Holly

Same Sex Couples Tell Us What it's Like to be Legally Married

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Lesbian Couple Marries Atop Empire State Building

 

"This ruling is a victory for America. This decision affirms what millions of Americans already believe in their hearts. When all Americans are treated as equal, we are all more free. We are people who believe every child is entitled to life and liberty and the pursuit of happiness. There is so much more work to be done to extend the full promise of America to every American. But today, we can say in no uncertain terms that we’ve made our union a little more perfect. That’s the consequence of a decision from the Supreme Court, but more importantly, it is a consequence of the countless small acts of courage of millions of people across decades who stood up, who came out, talked to parents, parents who loved their children no matter what, folks who were willing to endure bullying and taunts, and stayed strong, and came to believe in themselves and who they were. And slowly made an entire country realize that love is love."

 

 

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National Gay Wedding Association

Debunking Marriage Equality Dissenters

Black Love: Same Sex Couples' Quest for Marriage Equality

Same-Sex Celebrity Couples Who Put a Ring on It

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Timeline: Same-Sex Marriage

 

 

Mrs and Mrs: Wedding Planning Discussion

Love Wins: The Faces of Marriage Equality

Same-Sex Union/Marriage Legislation Worldwide

Guide to Gay and Lesbian Weddings

Marriage Equality in Texas: Story of Two LGBTQ Families

Carolina and Erica: Wedding Proposal

Pew Research Center: Global Snapshot of Same-Sex Marriage

YouTube: Top Ten Same-Sex Celebrity Weddings

Worst Reactions to Marriage Equality

 

Justice Anthony Kennedy wrote the court's majority opinion. Here are some of his comments: "No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than they once were. Their hope is not to be condemned to live in loneliness, excluded from one of civilization's oldest institutions. They ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right."

 

Marriage Equality Around the World
Countries Where Same Sex Marriage is Legal
Same-Sex Wedding Photo Gallery

Marriage Proposals That Will Warm Your Heart

LGBTQ Nation: Supreme Court Rules for Nationwide Marriage Equality

Best Lines From the Marriage Equality Ruling

Huff Post: Supreme Court Legalizes Gay Marriage Nationwide

CNN: Supreme Rules States Must Allow Same Sex Marriage

Worst Reactions to Marriage Equality

 

Richard Cohen, President, Southern Poverty Law Center, released this statement: "What a great day for our country! With today’s historic U.S. Supreme Court ruling, marriage equality for the LGBTQ community is now enshrined in our Constitution. It’s good news for not only people like our client Paul Hard but also for everyone in our country who cherishes equality. Earlier lower-court decisions reaching the same result propelled a positive change in public attitudes. We hope this ruling will do the same – because we still have a lot of work to do, particularly in the Deep South, where old attitudes are most slow to change. Members of the LGBTQ community, like our client Tristan Broussard, are still being fired from their jobs because of who they are. People like our client Ashley Diamond are still fighting to receive medical care for the same reason. And LGBTQ people everywhere are still at risk of being the victims of violent hate crimes by those with hate in their hearts. We’ll have to continue to fight for the rights of the LGBTQ community for years to come. But, today, we pause to celebrate. A tremendous battle has been won."

 

LGBTQ Wedding Ceremonies

 

Amanda and Amber

Daniel and John

Clark Brides

Melissa and Natalie

Alex and Dustin

Mellissa and Negin

Fidel and Alejandro

Krista and Christine

Albert and Courtney

Lizzie and Grace

Tyler and Matthew

Marlene and Carrie

Justin and Jo

Bianca and Saima

Raheem and Anthony

Kate and Julia

Parag and Vaibhav

Leticia and Karoline

Ali and Ashlyn

Danielle and Jennifer

Eric and Luke

Bella and Gemma

Paige and Vicki

Neeral and Anu

Lakin and Lindsey

Christina and Diana

Paige and Holly

Benjamin and Michael

Sara and Bianca

Rob and Tom

Brianna and Whitney

Jeff and Michael

Michelle and Pat

Erol and Giuseppe

Justin and Nathan

Gina and Angie

Matt and Jharen

Erin and Chelsea

Adam and Bernardo

Amy and Jordan

Matthew and Michael

Rose and Rosie

Noah and PJ

Lily and Annette

Mrs & Mrs Solano

David and Waifa

Debra and Kelly

Michelle and Crista

Erik and Terrell

Claudia and Jane

Meg and Nicole

Laura and Marilena

Meredith and Shoshana

Delaney and Alexandria

Jeremy and Steve

Julia and Abby

Arne and Alex

Crystal and Heather

Nate and Jeremiah

Nicole and Jackie

Miller Brides

Kia and Tanika

Carmine and Ryan

Paige and Dakota

Alisa and Heather

Jesse and Lily

Clinton and Callum

Robinson Brides

Vanessa and McKena

Kristin and Amber

Anthony and Logan

April and Tiffany

Shannon and Seema

John and David

Hannah and Diane

Kris and Matt

Ashley and Joanna

Jami and Chelsea

Matt and Harshal

Monica and Virpi

Ashley and Lauren

 

 

Time Mag: In What Countries is Same Sex Marriage Legal?

Love is Love: Photos From Same-Sex Weddings

Same-Sex Celebrity Couples Who Put a Ring on It

My Love My Life: Somewhere Over the Rainbow

Top Countries Most Supportive of Marriage Equality

Best Lines From the Marriage Equality Ruling

National Gay Wedding Association

Richard Blanco: Until We Could

 

Talking About Marriage
 

Good: Gay Marriage

Better: Same Sex Marriage

Best: Marriage Equality

 

As gay and lesbian couples begin getting married, some may struggle with the appropriate words to use to refer to the wedding ceremony that is taking place or the marriage relationship that is beginning.  You may hear confusion from someone who is sincerely trying to understand this new concept.  They may even ask, “So, which one’s the groom and which one’s the bride?”

 

It is appropriate, of course, to refer to the ceremony or the occasion as simply a “wedding” or a “marriage” like any other wedding or marriage.  There is no need to differentiate. 

 

However, the term “Gay Marriage” is respectful.  Using the term “Same Sex Marriage” shows greater knowledge of the subject.  Using the term “Marriage Equality” shows a deeper understanding of what it means and why it is important.


 

Will You Marry Me?
 

Mike and Angelo: Flash Mob Proposal

Tiffany and April: Simply Beautiful Proposal

Angie and Jessica: Backyard Proposal

Danae and Mandie: Surprise Proposal

Soy and Aja: Photo Shoot Proposal

Werner and Pauly: Australian Proposal

Marissa and Brittany: Orlando Proposal

Anthony and Mohammed: Venice Proposal on a Gondola

Kyra and Dani: Flash Mob Proposal

Chris and Clay: Broadway Boyfriends Flash Mob Proposal

Kelly and Christina: Philadelphia Proposal

Alex and Alex: Concert Proposal

Megan and Gretchen: Photo Shoot Proposal

Emma and Theresa: Denver Flash Mob Proposal

Compilation: Adorable Proposals

Marriage Proposals That Will Warm Your Heart

 

 

Marriage Equality in 37 States
 

Prior to the US Supreme Court decision to grant marriage equality nationwide, states legalized same-sex marriage one by one. By February 2015, all but 13 states had individually permitted same-sex marriage.

26 by Court Decision:

Alaska (Oct 17, 2014), Arizona (Oct 17, 2014), California (June 28, 2013), Colorado (Oct 7, 2014), Connecticut (Nov 12, 2008), Idaho (Oct 13, 2014), Indiana (Oct 6, 2014), Iowa (April 24, 2009), Kansas (Nov 12, 2014), Massachusetts (May 17, 2004), Montana (Nov 19, 2014), Nevada (Oct 9, 2014), New Jersey (Oct 21, 2013), New Mexico (Dec 19, 2013), North Carolina (Oct 10, 2014), Oklahoma (Oct 6, 2014), Oregon (May 19, 2014), Pennsylvania (May 20, 2014), South Carolina (Nov 20, 2014), Utah (Oct 6, 2014), Virginia (Oct 6, 2014), West Virginia (Oct 9, 2014), Wisconsin (Oct 6, 2014), Wyoming (Oct 21, 2014), Florida (Jan 2015), Alabama (Feb 9, 2015)

8 by State Legislature:

Delaware (July 1, 2013), Hawaii (Dec 2, 2013), Illinois (June 1, 2014), Minnesota (Aug 1, 2013), New Hampshire (Jan 1, 2010), New York (July 24, 2011), Rhode Island (Aug 1, 2013), Vermont (Sept 1, 2009)

3 by Popular Vote:

Maine (Dec 29, 2012), Maryland (Jan 1, 2013), Washington (Dec 9, 2012)

Plus: Washington DC (March 3, 2010)
 

2004 Massachusetts

2008 Connecticut
2009 Iowa
2009 Vermont
2010 New Hampshire
2010 Washington DC
2011 New York
2012 Washington
2012 Maine
2013 Maryland
2013 California
2013 Delaware
2013 Minnesota
2013 Rhode Island
2013 New Mexico
2013 New Jersey
2013 Hawaii
2014 Oregon

2014 Pennsylvania

2014 Illinois
2014 Oklahoma
2014 Virginia
2014 Utah
2014 Indiana
2014 Wisconsin
2014 Colorado
2014 West Virginia
2014 Nevada
2014 North Carolina
2014 Alaska
2014 Idaho
2014 Arizona
2014 Wyoming
2014 Montana
2014 South Carolina
2015 Florida
2015 Alabama

 

 

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Debunking Marriage Equality Dissenters

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Marriage Equality Worldwide

 

it has been more than two decades since the Netherlands made history as the first country to introduce marriage equality in 2001. Now legally performed and recognized in 36 countries, LGBTQ rights have come a long way as same-sex couples are able to enjoy the same legal benefits and status as their heterosexual counterparts in a number of places.

Despite this significant progress, a vast number of countries continue to only recognize civil unions or registered partnerships for same-sex couples. Others have laws that are not consistent across the nation, while others criminalize same-sex sexual activity entirely.

The legalization of gay marriage has most typically taken place through legislation, as has been the case in countries like Australia, Switzerland and Ireland. Others, such as the United States and Costa Rica, legalized it as the result of a court decision.
 

2001 - Netherlands
2003 - Belgium
2005 - Spain
2005 - Canada
2006 - South Africa
2009 - Norway
2009 - Sweden
2010 - Portugal
2010 - Iceland
2010 - Argentina
2012 - Denmark
2013 - Brazil
2013 - France
2013 - Uruguay
2013 - New Zealand
2014 - England
2014 - Wales
2014 - Scotland

2015 - United States

2015 - Luxembourg

2015 - Ireland

2016 - Colombia

2016 - Greenland
2017 - Finland
2017 - Malta
2017 - Germany
2017 - Australia
2019 - Austria
2019 - Taiwan
2019 - Ecuador
2020 - Northern Ireland
2020 - Costa Rica
2022 - Chile
2022 - Switzerland
2022 - Cuba
2022 - Slovenia

2022 - Mexico

2023 - Andorra
2023 - Nepal

2024 - Estonia

2024 - Greece

2014 - Thailand

Top Countries Most Supportive of Marriage Equality

Advocate: Tips for the Perfect LGBTQ Wedding

National Gay Wedding Association

Same-Sex Celebrity Couples Who Put a Ring on It

NY Times: Gay Marriage Backers Win Supreme Court Victory

Debunking Marriage Equality Dissenters

Black Love: Same Sex Couples' Quest for Marriage Equality

Supreme Court Declares: Same Sex Marriage Now Legal in All 50 States

Love Wins: The Faces of Marriage Equality

Carolina and Erica: Wedding Proposal

Same Sex Couples Tell Us What it's Like to be Legally Married

Freedom to Marry Comes to Alabama

LGBTQ Hawaiian Wedding Resources

Advocate: Are Queer People Making Marriage Better?

Why Opinion Changed so Quickly on Gay Marriage

 

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